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Overthinking in bed

08:34
They are one of the most amazing couples I met her in reddit. The GF reached out to me asking if she can experience yoni massage too. I can feel she’s really uptight with all her inquiries (Yes, even from line of questioning I can feel if a woman is too anxious). It is a normal respond of a woman who will experience the yoni massage for the first time to be anxious. With all the questions she had covered, one thing intrigued me: she is the one interested in yoni massage but she is also the one too anxious about it. Usually woman are too anxious if it is the guy’s idea and she just agreed. This is an interesting scene for me. We meet few days after. All of my expectations were correct. They have different sexual polarity. Sexual polarity refers to the chemistry, tension, or charge between people with opposite energies: feminine and masculine, yin and yang. This idea is based on the premise that everyone has feminine and masculine energy within them. (You can think of it as having the right and left brain and needing both parts to thrive.) Most of the time, people have a preference for one of these energies sexually. More polarity there is between you and your partner, meaning more masculine is one of you and more feminine another – more chemistry you’ll experience. People with feminine essence prefer to be ravished, taken (sexually), while those with the masculine one feel at home taking charge and being “the ravisher.” You can think of Feminine being the ocean while Masculine being the ship. The ocean might be calm and pleasant one moment only to turn rough and stormy the next. But if it’s a good ship, it is steadily going towards its destination regardless. It knows that the ocean is chaotic by nature, and it’s pointless to hold it against it. Feminine energy is the energy of change, receptivity, chaos, creativity, flow, vibrance. Feminine comes alive by feeling the fullness of life and love. Masculine energy is goal-oriented, driven; it is the energy that is identified with emptiness, death, consciousness. Masculine loves challenges. -() I already set the expectations to them that I am there to focus on the woman as the center of all the pleasure. But that’s a really hard task if the woman is too anxious about the session. To handle this kind of situation, my first priority is not to make her overthink which would eventually go to spectatoring. (Spectatoring is essentially the opposite of being "in the moment" during sex. You are so busy analyzing the situation and judging yourself that you can't fully enjoy the sexual experience—instead, sex becomes a spectator sport. Often, spectatoring can cause anxiety or even sexual dysfunction. But at the very least, it's a libido killer; research shows that women who engage in spectator sex are less satisfied, have fewer real orgasms, and have more fake more orgasms. -()) Tips for the woman not to go on overthinking in bed: 1. I knew that woman’s psyche has no control over their thinking. The more we say don’t do it, they will. First thing she will think is I may record their whole session on camera. My solution: I never go to a room before a woman. They are either in the room already, or we book a place together. Guys, the thought will always wander in their heads, so instead of battling their thoughts prevent it beforehand. 2. I play relaxing music. First reason, to get them relaxed and be in the mood (imagine her lying there with my breathing and her breathing the only things she can hear, that’s a breeding ground for overthinking). Second, how can I record if my phone is playing some music (another reinforcement for point no. 1) 3. Changes in temperature. This should be done carefully. Make it too cold and you will have a longer time to arouse her, make it too hot and her mind will be on overdrive again. 4. I talk to the woman. I seldom do this because it is counterintuitive to make a woman relaxed while you are talking to them. But the talk make the session personal and not transactional. That’s what is necessary for her during that time so that she will become more comfortable with me and my touch. 5. Tell her what you will do next. It is again counterproductive on my part to remove the element of surprise. But there are woman out there who would want to know what would happen first. The key is for them to be comfortable with your words. Like when I say “hindi pa ito ang pinakamasarap na part”, then she will look forward for more. Hindi ko nmn sinasabi buong details, when she’s relaxed and comfortable na, the surprises can be introduced one by one. 6. I let her touch my genitalia to show that it doesn’t affect me when I touch her genitalia. Again, another thought I would occasionally battle is that “minamanyak ko sila”. But them being reminded that I am not turned on while I am doing the massage to them make her assured that I will not jump on her and do crazy stuffs at any given moment, and in turn put their minds at ease. 7. Be patient and go through the whole process with her. The surest way for her to “be in the moment” is to assure that “someone is with her in the moment”. I even invited the BF to be her headside while I massaged her pussy. This is her moans when the husband kissed her breast and lips, while I massaged her other lips. (The music is not too loud, but the BF placed his phone too close to my phone while recording the moans of her gf). Finally she attained her very relaxed state, I know she had experienced a lot of her joyous peaks during this state. I just reinforced it that these are the things you can achieve if you are fully relaxed.
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08:34
When a woman is not sure what orgasm feels like, it is highly probable that she hadn’t experienced it yet. Orgasm is a very unique experience for a woman, and they also experience it differently. Some people make noises during an orgasm, while others are silent. Some flush or sweat after an orgasm, but others do not. -()
03:29
I meet this lady curios about Yoni massage. Later in the session I discovered she is also a virgin (she’s still went home a virgin after the session though). Hear how a virgin moans while I massage her precious cave.
04:31
Most Filipinos are not great in giving compliments (kahit dito sa reddit evident na mas mabilis taung mag-downvote kesa iclick ung upvote button), kaya naapreciate ko kapag may nagcompliment sa pinag-aaralan ko. The PT said, “It looks like alam mo naman ginagawa mo”. (hiyang-hiya ako kc late n nya nabanggit nung tapos na yung massage and I had thrown out terms na simula plng pla naiintindihan na nya). And now this OB-Gyne assuring me that she had enjoyed the pempem massage session.
03:08
She moans a lot, cums a lot and squirt a lot. We ended up with puddles in the bed. And am just using my hands and fingers. Yoni Massage for the win.
05:56
It is her first time experiencing Yoni Massage. She’s so sensitive and definitely horny. She can cum and squirt almost every minute. Here’s her 31st and 32nd cum.
02:18
She followed me last Valentine’s Day. Fan daw sya and she wants to experience Yoni Massage. She got tons of interesting questions and I find her really humble to ask those questions na walang arte. I really appreciate it when woman are outright communicative with things they want to know. After my month-long vacation from Reddit, she’s one of the few who messaged me and excited to welcome me back in PH kahit through chat lang. We decided to meet. In my eyes, she’s very much resembling Yam Concepcion. Mukhang maalaga sa katawan and she has these really sweet conyo accent. Nagulat ako kasi napakasophisticated nya pala in person. Hear her cute accent while having intense orgasms during the Yoni Massge:
03:52
Yoni massage allows you to explore your body in a slow, methodical, and sensual way — without the all-too-common pressure to “perform” for a partner. - (#benefits)
07:46
Virgin wants to experience full yoni massage with a special request (juicy audio) She’s the virgin from (&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) She reached out because she wanted to experience the full 100% of yoni massage. If a lady met me for a yoni massage session for the first time, I can only deliver them to 50% of the known yoni techniques I practice. The sole reason for this is that I want their body to be familiarized with their peak of pleasure first. From my past posts, I had shared that orgasm may not be happening due to these variables: lack of knowledge or lack of experience. Lack of knowledge is simply saying you are not yet familiar with the sexual map of your vagina hence you don’t know your pleeasure spots yet. Yoni massage can help with that journey of sexual discovery. Lack of experience means your body has no records of experiencing orgasm yet hence its natural fight or flight response is not to jump in hastily even when orgasm is just a tickle away (minsan OA ang body, anything na hind pa nya nararanasan, it will assume na will lead to death, kaya it is important to train your mind to overcome what your body assume as its limits). With that in mind, I am not only letting them experience their peak of pleasure (and letting them experience their untouched pleasure spots), but I also make those spots and experience engraved in their body’s memory by just rhythmically switching to those pleasure points. This way, they can go back to those spots and experiences even if I am not the one stimulating them (a service to their future partner). The other 50% on the other hand (or fingers, pun intended), is about duration on their peaks. It is more breathe-taking (literally) and the body can be weird out how to process those stimulations if it is done on the first session. I can compare it to how my body felt weird out first time a lady did rimming to me, or when a doctor after a yoni massage session did a prostate exam to me (with steps on how to do douching). The rimming is pleasurable but the sensations caught me off-guard. The prostate exam is beneficial, but the first experience is really weird for my body. Here is her moans, while she’s experiencing the 100% of yoni massage that I do. But wait, there’s more. Before we meet, she requested another thing: if I can receive her virginity too. I asked her if she’s sure (she’s on her mid-20’s btw, so she knows what she’s asking). She said she doesn’t think she will be in a relationship anytime soon and wanted to experience it too. I felt sad about it because I know this lady, she has one of the perfect body and vagina that I met. If I am going to recommend a jowable, I would really recommend her. I jokingly added that she should add “has perfect sex body as per yoni master” on her dating profile.
08:27
It’s important to remember there’s a difference between wanting to have sex and being physically aroused. It’s possible to feel physically aroused without wanting to act on that feeling. Just because someone shows signs of sexual arousal doesn’t mean they want to have sex — nor does it mean they consent to having sex. -()
04:31
When your nipples are stimulated, these feel-good vibes also find their way to a key brain structure called the hypothalamus, which among its many important functions regulates the brain chemicals that make us exhilarated, furious, horny, or happy. Stimulation of the nipples causes the hypothalamus to release oxytocin—a potent neurohormone that can enhance feelings of bonding and helps trigger the pleasurable contractions experienced during orgasm itself. - (&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&client=firefox-b-m)
02:04
This is the second half of the yoni session. She’s been moaning and squirting for 1.5 hours and we just had a break. After the break, she’s rehydrated, recharged and you can even hear her squirt in these juicy recording.
07:14
The shape/look of your vagina can differ! Girls, do not think it is an abnormal thing. It’s absolutely normal to have different types of vaginas in terms of shape, size, and color. - ()
04:13
Studies have found that heterosexual women are the demographic having the least orgasms during sex and it could be down to a lack of understanding when it comes to female anatomy and the vulva - ()
03:05
I hold myself responsible for opening more curiosity about the art of yoni massage because of my posts. But get this, my posts are NOT for everyone TO DO yoni massage. My posts are TO ENCOURAGE everyone TO LEARN about the art of pleasuring women, which eventually includes DOING yoni massage. The same logic that the yoni massage’s intention is to pleasure the woman (through therapeutic, sensual and pleasurable touches), which eventually (may or may not) includes orgasm (and even squirting to some). ()
01:11
So I had accepted a challenge for myself to do a session with minimal or almost no interaction with the clitoris. She had a total of 20+ cums, without the clit being tensed and without comprising the total pleasurability of the whole session. Is it a success, check the audio and be the judge.
02:09
She messaged me saying she’s new in reddit and got curious because of the posts about me. She’s on her mid 20s, slim and morena. She said she has only tried having sex once and her first penetration was really painful. She got frustrated afterwards and to add she doesn’t know what orgasm feels like. We scheduled a date to meet right away. She said it is kinda strange for her because I would be the second guy to touch her down ther and the first stranger to do so. I started with just tellling her how it usually flow, 1-3 hours, with the first hour spent mostly on the full-body massage. She asked why do I do it for free and I stated my reasons. Anyway, she had paid for her hotel stay so it is not entirely free, I added. Shortly through the yoni massage I can hear her breathing heavily. I asked if I could record her and she said she might get conscious. Check her moans kung na-conscious pa nga ba sya:
02:11